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Social Relations
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Individual
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The quality of your relationships is
the quality of your life. This advice is primarily meant for you and the
relationship with your Significant Other (SO).
- You get into a relationship to give something rather than to go to get
something out.
Empowering Question: How can I give more to this relationship?
- Avoid anchoring your negative emotions to the people you are with
- Keep arguments / discussions short and resolve them as soon as
possible
- Be playful and adventurous in the growth of your relationship
- Show you love and care in the way that fits the need of the person
involved. How does this person know someone loves them? Say it, show it,
touch in a specific way. (find out the primary representation system)
How do you know you are most loved by me? Is is absolutely necessary
that I show you that I love you by buying you thing, taking you places
or looking a certain way? (visual) Is is absolutely necessary that I say
it (auditory) Is it absolutely necessary that I touch you in a certain
way (kinesthetic)
- Create key-moments that are fun or special
- Enjoy where you are right now, do not fear the (possible) end. Act as
if the relationship is going to last forever. Mutual commitment is the
identity of every lasting relationship.
Identify exactly what you want in a relationship and what you don't want.
What do you want your relationship to be about?
What unique things can you do to enhance the relationship?
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Resolving Conflicts
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International
Online Training Program On Intractable Conflict Many
problemcategories and reflections on several wordwide conflicts.
Conflict Research Consortium, University of Colorado, USA. |
General Social Problems
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The Allyn
& Bacon Social Problems Web Site is a learning resource for
students of social problems, sociology, social work, or any other academic
or applied area relating to the social sciences. The Site covers 14 social
problem areas, starting with an overview on General Sociology, Applied
Sociology, and Social Problems.
SIMPOS:
Netherlands foundation for information on social problems and occult
tendencies. A somewhat critical view on social themes related to New Age,
religious cults, etc.
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